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I pose a question to all the single women out there, are divorce men damaged men?

Recently separated and newly divorced, I find that women have two rules of thought; 1. It shows he's a man that can commit or 2., What the F was his problem?

I find that even talking about it becomes laborious and I tend to not even mention it. Mainly due to the fact that I will tell someone that I am genuinely interested in, otherwise, what's the point?
Does having sex with a previously married man (or even just a date) really present a threat?